I would like to be a mother who is stable in her mental health.
Because if I am healthy, I will be able to perform my best.
I want to become that person she feels she can come to.
If she makes a mistake I am not going to tell her off. I hate being told off. I hate being told what to do.
and it is not so much what i am told as how i am told.
even in my adult life, 29 years old, I still get upset when I am told off or told what to do in an inconsiderate tone.
I tell my mum most of the time to treat me this way, she might get it right today but tomorrow she does it again.
and God knows i hate confrontation. Leaving with others takes skill. Patience. Practise.
